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Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Destiny.

We always hear the word destiny or destined. How do people define destiny would be somewhat similar to how most of the people think of it. Two people destined with each other means they will be together at the end "no matter what they do and how people do to separate them." I literally wanted to quote that as it actually defines what destiny is as what other people think of it. But is there really a destiny or is this just another kids fantasy stories?


Sorry to contradict or to disappoint everyone but I and how I view life in general really don't believe that there is destiny. We have the brains to think and common sense to decide on what we really want out of something or out of life. I do not let destiny or fate control me. I hold my own life and I am the only one who can dictate the kind of life that I wanted. This is the only freedom that all of us are blessed to have with.

If you want something to happen, you need to move and make that happen. Things will never come and happen if you wait for destiny. You never get something just by praying or looking at it, you must try hard to get it. You need to exert effort!

I am writing this not to persuade you. This is just my opinion and my belief.


14 comments:

Mister LLama said...

"Don't go with the flow".

If you want things to happen, make it happen. =)

MiDniGHt DriVer said...

AYOS! We have the same post, pero sabi mo nga, contradict ang ating paniniwala. IMO, kaya naman I do beleive in destiny bec. I know, may plano si God sa ating lahat, kaya nga minsan may nagsasabi na, "Di naman ibibigay sayo ang problema na yan kung di mo kayang lagpasan", and thats it, if u read between the lines, it simply tell us that lahat na nangyayari sa atin is my purpose.

Pero saludo ko sa explanation mo! Galing :-)

Poldo said...

I dont know if i will believe on that word but in some cases it exists.... hay...

Maybe Destiny are not applicable to all. Meron dyan sobrang paniniwala sa salitang yan tumandang dalaga/binata.... or maybe they are destined to be like that... tsk tsk... thats life.. its too complicated.. LOL

Mharliz said...

Well, as human being with unique personalities we have different opinion and belief as well. I, myself believe in destiny but I wont say that you are wrong for not believing in it. Respect of your perspective is enough in honor of this post.

Always smile! :P

Benh said...

@Mister Llama agree ako sayo! kilos nga ika nila.

@Driver yup! maybe that is how it should be. If things that are happening around us has purpose, then it's high time for us to move and react to that purpose. Siguro it's a challenge that I am posting but think of it, nobody gets fish just by looking at the sea. just my opinion though.. hehe!

@Poldo who invented that word have a very strong faith, i guess.

@Mharliz agree ako and i also respect everyones opinion. We have our own beliefs. korek! :D

Benh said...

To All - I know this post is a little intriguing and really creates a venue for a lot of arguments. And I like how you guys react and share your thoughts about this concept. Every opinion and beliefs are welcome and well respected! There's no such thing as right or wrong, the point is you have something to share. Correct?

Thank you sa mga nagshare ng thoughts nila. Go guys!

fiel-kun said...

Destiny lies in my hand... stop movement. Galaxy Stop! (nadala lang ako nung spell incantations sa Final Fantasy Tactics lols)

Destiny is no matter of chance. It is a matter of choice: It is not a thing to be waited for, it is a thing to be achieved.

mr.nightcrawler said...

i don't believe in destiny... i believe in freewill. i believe that we are responsible for all the happening in our lives.

Joyo said...

sabi nga nila walang kwenta ang destiny kung walang eport :)

Unni-gl4ze^_^ said...

para sakin ang destiny is God's plan eh,,pero nasa tao rin kasi yang destiny na yan,,kung ggawin mo ba or not,,,di rin kasi yan magwwork kung di rin tau kikilos yun lng po ahihihii,,
nakigulo lng ako ahha

Anonymous said...

so, why is this so called "destiny" exist..?? hhaayyyy... mysterious life...
padaan po ha...
chalamat...

Benh said...

@fiel-kun aba maganda yan ff tactics.. Agree, it's a matter of choice.

@Mr night crawler.. we have the same thinking. hehe! :D

@Joyo kaya po i assume that we create our own destiny based on our own judgements and decisions. hehe

@Unni - Hello unni! More of fullfiling ung destiny for you. Destiny is there but you need to act to get it or be there. :D

@Anonymous - sana nagiwan ka ng link.. hehe! I don't know who invented that word.. hahaha!

Anonymous said...

hehe...tsaka na lang po ako mag iiwan ng link pag aalm ko na kung san galing salitang destiny o sin man nag imbento nun... u make me smile kuya...
naniniwala talaga ko sa destiny..pero syempre tulad ng marami.. wala din mangyayari if maniniwala ka lang ng maniniwala at wala ka naman ginagawa...
hehehe... happy day sau kuya...
chow...!!!

Benh said...

@Anonymous haha! baka matagalan ka nian sa pagreresearch.. salamat naman at may napapangiti ako sa pagsusulat ko.. Minsan add mo na link mo.. hahaha! :D

Happy weekend too! :))