FEAR

I am browsing thru several pages of a magazine when I come across a brand name "No Fear." But this is not to promote their products or whatsoever. :) I get focused on the word FEAR and thought how and why we feel afraid sometimes. Is this feeling a prerequisite of something? Is this feeling created for something we people need to realize? These are few questions I will try to answer.

Rapid heartbeats, too much sweating... 

 On my opinion, fear lives on the concept of not knowing something AND also when we know too much of a thing. We often feel fear when we less know a thing that we need to do or worse not even knowing at all. Having no idea of what will happen next creates fear.

Think about death. Most of us fear death and I am one of it. The simple reason why is because I do not know what will happen to me after life. Who knows? To mitigate this fear, society created beliefs and norms which will help people learn what is death. In turn, accept death as a form and part of man's life cycle. Some believe in reincarnation, some believe in fruitful life after death, some believe that we will either go to hell or heaven depending on how He will weigh the life that you have on earth, and such. But despite this, man still fear death.

Si-AR-Yu-ES-eTS

Smile... Did she know that with just a single smile of her using her attractive red lips, you loose yourself and makes your world spinning round?

A day is not just an ordinary day when you know that she is just "there" even though you both seldom interact at all, not even a consistent Hi's or hello's. But with a sudden unexpected meeting of your eye sights and a simple friendly smile is worth thousands of words for you and not even a 24-hour of conversation could match to that. What about how you crave to stare at her    long black hair, her bangs, her face, her lips and her fingernails? and when she accidentally looks at you, you look away. Haha! That's so obvious!:D

Destiny.

We always hear the word destiny or destined. How do people define destiny would be somewhat similar to how most of the people think of it. Two people destined with each other means they will be together at the end "no matter what they do and how people do to separate them." I literally wanted to quote that as it actually defines what destiny is as what other people think of it. But is there really a destiny or is this just another kids fantasy stories?

Sorry to contradict or to disappoint everyone but I and how I view life in general really don't believe that there is destiny. We have the brains to think and common sense to decide on what we really want out of something or out of life. I do not let destiny or fate control me. I hold my own life and I am the only one who can dictate the kind of life that I wanted. This is the only freedom that all of us are blessed to have with.

nearing death

I feel the pain growing in my chest as I lay on the rough ground. My heart keeps pounding very hard and it’s getting harder and harder. I feel my whole body… the pain slowly eats me, I wanted to scream but voice was not coming out of my mouth or maybe I wasn’t hearing anything at all. Murmurs… all I hear are murmurs from my surrounding. I feel like an alien who cannot understand their language, it only echoes in my ear. Suddenly my body is getting numb and the pain is slowly fading… should I be happy that the pain is gone?